Desires, Requirements and Needs !!

Three beautiful words if used in right context and at right moment and part of life.But these three words could become most cruel in life when we fail to understand their value and relevance in our life.

Most of us struggle to put these three words in right perspective in our own life. We are confused in understanding the importance and part they in our life, won’t be wrong to say this.But if a confusion leads to misery, pain, hampers your growth in any form then I wont call it confusion. I will term it as inability. Yes inability to choose, to know, to understand and to decide between right and wrong for your ownself.

I hope am not complicating things for you ?

Trust me, just look back in your life, introspect and once speak with mirror of your emotions and you will know pretty well how wrong you were when you misunderstood your requirement with desire. How you messed up falling for need which turned into greed to certain extent.

Always bear in your mind and keep this thing intact in your heart that “if a flower can loose its fragrance, colour and liveness with time even though they don’t have to deal with daily struggle of life, emotions, relationships” then you too won’t stay for long here. Life is too short for those who has not not desired and aligned their needs and requirements with it.

I would say each of us rather should weigh our actions n thoughts with these key words. If your desires are wrong, you would end up being needy in wrong contextt which would rather lead to wrong requirements for you to opt for in order to fulfill your desires.

I have come across people in my life who not only messed up their whole life but rather people who were close to them only because they became NEEDY !  Yepp, they fell prey to wrong NEEDS at wrong time. However, I would like to add that any need, any desire is not wrong if they are set in right context and they don’t overpower your whole life decisions.

The simpler the desires are, the smaller your needs would be. And i believe, we as a generation probably have yet not been intelligent enough to understand “desire to move wall from its place by pushing it” is nothing but “Stupidity”. I hope you would understand this analogy.

Your only desire, need and requirement should and only be Happiness, Peace and Self Growth. Let’s not fall for materials, beauty, money and most important showoff !!!!

Life is too short for those who set these these three words in wrong context.

Once my teacher said, your worth or value, you can evaluate by choosing only five people in your life whom you have come across and on whom you have no influence.Try to know their opinion about you, as a brother, sister, lover, sister, human being, anything ? And you would know the reality. “Even dogs bark and chase running cars” , so don’t be high if people praise your beauty, money, job, or anything you proud off. If they about you with others about you positively and would remember you once you are gone, then you should smile n be happy.

Otherwise you are just a number, a name, a burden , a pain !!!!