Am I being loud when I say Infidelity is norm now ?

In the past few years after experiencing and being in relationships, If I say cheating and infidelity has seeped deep inside in our skin then am I being too Judgemental ? Or am I talking too dark ?

Let’s face the facts, the short life of relationships these days are not only outcome of misunderstanding between couples but also desire to long for best. Haven’t we being taught since school days to be perfect and best in every field we step in. Be it academics, sports, dancing, singing or being homely and cultured.

Haven’t we being compared with our neighbour’s lad ? Didn’t our parents say that look at Sharma Ji’s Son, he is topper ! If he can why can’t you ? Didn’t we hear many times that look at Shukla Ji, such a proud parents they are. I still remember once, when my parents say that Thakur ji is so lucky to have such a son.

Damn, if we scored good marks in 4 subjects and scored average in 5th one, we were being and rather are scolded. Why is everyone running for perfection only ? Why can’t this society, culture allows and accepts people with average caliber ? Irony is most of us are average only in our domain. Then why this chase for perfection ?

This very past, present and thought can be very much linked with current mind frame and thoughts of individuals who were or in relationship. Being in a relationship and looking for satisfaction outside is kind of cool now. Guys or girls now openly talk and boost that they moved for someone else outside relationship because their needs were not being taken care of. The youth of today have in way kind of accepted the fact that emotions and love is unending process where one keep changing the partners.

Aren’t we moving towards a dangerous zone where probably there is no turning back. Individuals are so ready to dirty their linen that they hardly care in this age of washing machines. Yes, when you don’t wash your dirty n filthy linen then how could you understand how much dirt you put in there…

I think at times being infidel is kind of fashion now. You can so openly talk and tell your friends  about being cosy with someone for a night or few nights. And speaking from my observations people find a different kick in it when they say that they were on bed outside relationship.

Have we as such lost our conscience ? Has morality gone on toss ? Or who are we to judge morality ?

Life have become so fast paced and search for perfection have become so deep rooted in our mind and society that everything has become just a matter of satisfaction. The definition of satisfaction itself has been confined to worldly meanings. Lust and Needs are no more a taboo. It’s like bathing in that muddy water where you have to prove to the world that you are enjoying no matter how much muddy it is.

I haven’t seen a man or a woman who has lost his or her conscience for momentary pleasure and achieved long lasting happiness forever. Mistakes does happen, but when its being repeated it becomes character. Don’t let your heart and mind start questioning you character when you sit in silence.

The day you would say RIP Conscience that day itself you will loose your self worth and respect not only in society but in your eyes too.