While sitting in CCD and literally scanning every person crossing my eyes, the only thing which my mind asks is Y Mate ?

To which I have no answer. I am forced to do this or there is tussle going on between heart and mind. Answer is, I am clueless. How often does it happen when you know you trending on wrong path or wandering in barren land but you still can’t do anything ?

What is there which keeps you going on one side while on the other end you keep coaxing yourself ? You must have read, heard, been advised and mentored at some point or the other that follow your mind when your heart fails you.

Well it’s not that simple. If you go biologically, then it’s heart which pumps blood even in brain so ideally speaking every part of body is being nourished by heart itself. Even though we and one can argue that it’s brain which gives direction to which counter argument would be that the strength of brain comes from heart itself. Henceforth, one can say heart rules the body and thus the actions.

So if one wishes to avoid tussle between mind and heart then better focus on your heart. Let your heart be strong and smart enough to allow mind to take decisions on it’s behalf. I know it’s easy said than done. But this is all one should aim for.

God has so smartly hard wired heart with every part of the body that technically it’s impossible to blink your eye lashes even without the consent of heart.

And frankly speaking, like many of you I am weak with heart. I have allowed heart to be master of my body and thus actions. Though this is wrong and I feel that I may succumb to further emotional trauma and still helpless.

To the newbees, my only advice would be start training your heart to listen to mind and not be weak at any moment. Life is not easy if your heart is weak. When you step outside your house, people are literally waiting to snatch any moment where they can make you feel helpless just for their own gains and satisfaction. Actions should and only be defined by your mind. Role of heart should only be to do it’s work efficiently and not interfere in any of your decisions.

There is nothing like pure heart or good heart. It’s only weak heart and strong heart. And Darwin truly said its survival of fittest. So if you are weak hearted, emotionally charged up person then buddy be ready to receive all the pain and trouble of this world, whether you deserve it or not, you will certainly get it.