Often, we are in situation where we are stucked in a phase called ‘Waiting’. Yea, waiting to get attention from someone, rather the one from whom you have expectations and desires. Nothing can be and would be ever worse than staying in this phase.

No body likes to wait. But probably most of knowingly or unknowingly make others to wait. Why do we do this ? Sometimes, because we don’t wish to lose attention which we are getting and some times, we love to make others wait. May be because some of us are programmed mentally and emotionally in such a way that either we enjoy this or we don’t give damn.

However, when situation is reversed, its we who crib a lot. Life is not so simple, not because it is difficult but only because we have chose to make it slightly tricky. We start expecting something from someone even though we know from inside that things may not happen the way we desire. Yet, our human attitude which is result of nature or nurture or might be both, doesn’t let us accept reality.

My personal experiences and circumstances have taught and shown me that no matter what happens and how much we try, things which are not in our hand takes their own time. And if something is taking way too much time then its better to go for course correction than hanging for same thing and keep burning your energies.

if each of us, start building a habit that no matter what happens we would be clear with decisions in a specific frame of time, specifically when our decisions are linked with someone, sooner or later we would realise that we ourselves will not be a category of ‘waiting’. Yea, we get what we give. If we give good, we will definitely get better. And if our mind is overcome by greed, insanity and cruelty where we start behaving as if we can do what we want as its our life then be rest assured somewhere we are digging a grave for ourselves.

No situation and circumstance can make and should make us commit mistakes again and again. And remember here, I am only talking about decisions which we deliberately don’t take or convey to others, for which some one is anxiously waiting !

I do agree, that there are few stuffs for which we shouldn’t rush in taking decisions but then there’s always a way to express same and make other person understand. A sane and mature person would certainly understand and would wait.

Give happiness and Get happiness. Give tears and then definitely you gathering same for yourself. Time and location is then chosen by someone else for your turn.

It’s simple, rather very simple to keep things clear and transparent. There is nothing which can’t be explained and nothing which can’t be understood if explained properly.

Untag this word ‘Give me more Time’ , ‘I need Time’, ‘Please wait for some more time’, ‘ I will tell you at right time’, ‘Give me my time’, ‘Can’t you wait for some more time’ .  I am pretty sure and confident, when someone gives these words then we are never in good mood. Then why should we do same with someone who may turn out to be our saviour at some time. As time is not constant, but the changes which comes with time is only constant entity. Lets make right decisions at right time, so that we can deal with changes in more positive manner.

If train comes on time, only then it can reach destination on time. If it gets delayed then neither driver can reach his/her home on time nor passengers can reach their destination on time.