Don’t question if someone is nice with you !!

I often wonder and scratch my head when i see decent and nice people around in this fast pace of life. I wonder how they surviving when everyone is trying to snatch every bit they see around. Yes, whether that bit would do any good or would be meaningless yet people eye for that bit, as it has become tendency to crave for more.

And then there are these few about to be extinct people who are naive, nice and decent. They would be more than willing to share even their own pie only to bring other person at peace or least bring smile. These few people are kind of carrying the burden of spreading truthfulness and kindness in world.

Though it’s always not that easy as it looks like to be nice with some. I bet majority of the time you will think of ulterior motive of a person, if other person is being nice n decent with you. Yes, it’s kind of automatic feeling which just pops in your head, am no stranger to this. And so when we start judging the decency and kindness of a person who is trying to spread smile we kind of not only disrespecting the efforts of that person but also disrespecting ourselves too as if we are not worth of that kindness.

We all need simplicity of thoughts and actions. We all require these happy people around who could bring us back from those sad and dark moments but unfortunately when we come across some one like that we start calculating that persons motive. And with my experience, I can say people who are weak from inside are the ones who questions first on kindness, decency of other person.

I have heard so many times ” He/she is only trying to be nice with you as he/she needs something from you. Don’t fall pray.”

Damn, you should be wise enough and mature enough to call spade a spade and don’t let pre-conceived notions take over your humanity.

If you can’t be nice atleast don’t question or disrespect someone who is good with you. Life is very short to crib and cry upon.

Take whatever you get with open heart. Be it pain, be it love. Embrace what you get. And remember always it’s only those who are kind at heart sleep peacefully even if they don’t drive BMW and live in Penthouse.

Learn to respect kindness, learn not to judge people and learn to accept what you have and what you get.

Fact of life is, world will never stop whether you are alive or dead then why to avoid happiness even if it comes from least expected person.

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