We all judge our friends, relatives and person we meet through parameters which have been embedded in our head without ever thinking once why should we judge and what exactly we get by judging.

For few, these parameters define whether the person is worth enough talking, good enough to spend time with and even we reach to conclusion of success or failure. Who are we to judge a person, be it our friend or our own family.

Relatives and family judge by academics, jobs and then marital status. No matter what potential or caliber person has, if he/she is not good with aforesaid criteria person becomes social outcast in own family. While, friends judge by their own parameters, for few its career, depth of pocket and few even judge you by your looks, dressing and family background.

None can say ever that he/she has not been judgmental rather we are. But then crux of the matter is why do we need to be judgmental. Every person, every living being has their own life which is based on circumstances, few are manageable while most are beyond our reach and yet people being judged.

Simple logic, no point in judging or comparing apple with oranges. Fishes are meant to swim while horses are meant to run. For once, if we just close our gland of judgement we will see people with all together different perspective.

Lately, have come across so many incidents where son and daughter is being judged by parents by their academics. Boys and girls being judged by their looks and money. Career and Marital status being another factor which is dominant factor while judging. I felt and still feel bad that why have we formed a cocoon, where we not ready to see outside. We have stopped ourselves in embracing people. We are responsible for so many teary eyes, just because we failed to treat and see person normally and accept who they are, what they are.

if you don’t have caliber and strength to help someone, if you have no interest in listening and understanding other’s view then please don’t judge someone, anyone.

You might be well off in whichever field you are but that doesn’t make other person inferior.

Every Dog has his day, remember today you may be one. But moral is you are still a Dog !!!

Keep your arms open with a smile on your face..World will be worth living then !!