Ever since i finished studying, my parents and all my family which includes all known and unknown relatives have been after my life for marriage. Uncles, aunties, grand parents, even uncle’s uncle and not to forget various neighbours and even those we saw me during my childhood or heard that i have finished my studies have been recommending me to get married and get settled. Marriage, marriage and marriage !! I guess this is what settlement is being defined as, in my culture. Sad but have been trying to run away from this from quite long.

Till date i have not been able to figure out, why should i get married. Should i get married just because every one else gets married or should i get married because all the girls i was ever hooked up with got married, rather few of them have kids as well 😉 Bwahahahah .. Jokes apart, seriously am struggling to figure out why should i marry ?

As far as i have understood about marriage, its more about companionship. Its more a friendship who is ready to take shit and be part of shit. For me marriage is more like partners in crime. Where two person can stay strong in worst of times and still bear smile on their face just because they know they are not alone.

Marriage is just not a mere relationship. Its not at a cultural or physical bond. Its more to do with inner bond. It is something when soul talks. I wonder how best couples survive and smile together.

I haven’t experienced it but i think life becomes more serene and calm when you meet your soulmate.

Rahul is my college friend. A guy whom i never thought would get married. Atleast not before me !! and today i heard from him that finally he is engaged. I am really happy for him and hope he gets best life and experience with this new phase.

I hope Rahul too would agree with few things by not all, with my opinion on marriage and would start a happy married and stable life !!

Marriage is not a necessity. But certainly it is not less than necessity if you wish to fill emptiness…..